The eyes widen, the mouth waters, breaths grow short. What is this feeling? Look, nothing is happening genitally speaking so it’s not that, however the word “urge” is definitely coming to mind, and that’s sort of hard to know what to do with. Should we just loosen up? Should we live, and breathe, and accept this sensation for what it is, whatever it is? Maybe. We’ve never felt this way before. We’re a little scared. Take our hand.