My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years now, and I feel like we’re finally ready to have anal sex. But I have to say, I’m a little concerned about how much it will hurt to put his whole butt in my pussy.
While the practicalities concern me, I want to please my man and I’ve have been considering alternatives to regular intercourse for a while now. I’ve been hearing a lot about this anal sex stuff, but I am not yet well versed in the topic, so I have to ask: Doesn’t it hurt? I mean, a whole butt in my pussy? A man’s butt, no less? Men have bigger butt than women, and certainly have bigger butts than vaginas. I’m concerned!
To be fair, I’m not sure exactly how big my pussy is. It could be anywhere from one inch to more than a foot wide when penetrated. I keep my eyes closed during sex and the lights off and the sheets pulled up to my neck, so I’m just guessing here. I’ve never seen porn, either, although I saw a woman’s bare breasts in a YMCA locker room once. I suppose if other women are fitting butts in their vaginas, then I can technically do it, too. It might be painful but so is childbirth and that’s something I fully intend to go through, as soon as I can figure out how that works.
I guess it must feel good to put a man’s butt in your vagina, otherwise why would so many people be doing it?
When we first had sex on the night of our wedding, I was like “ouch!” But I got used to it. I guess I could also get used to Dan’s butt in my vagina if that’s what makes his butt feel good. Or his erection? Can his butt get erect as well? I’m not sure how it works exactly. That’s why I’ll be letting him take the reins on this one.
Am I nervous? You bet. But sometimes, life is all about pushing negative feelings down, deep down and never examining them. I want to please my man and I’ve decided: I’m putting his butt in my pussy!
