It’s a question every woman asks herself: “Does he want to have sex with me, or does he just wanna fuck me?” Men are often manipulative, conniving, sex-obsessed liars—making it difficult to discover their true intentions. Here’s a few tried-and-true ways to determine whether a guy is really only interested in sex, or if he just wants to fuck you.
Use Your Words.
As with many relationship problems, the most mature solution is to communicate openly and ask clear questions—how else are you gonna know if he’s just looking to get into your pants, or if he’s just trying to use you for sex? Don’t beat around the bush while asking him exactly what he wants with your bush. Sure, he might tell you the truth—that he only wants you for sex—and that will hurt, but there’s also a chance he’ll tell you that he’s genuinely interested in fucking you. At the very least, you’ll know the truth.
When Does He Contact You?
If this guy is only texting you late at night, that probably means he only thinks of you as a fuck buddy. Yikes! However, if he texts you very late at night, he probably sees you as more of a booty call. Congrats, sexy lady! If you only hear from him on Monday or Tuesday, that likely means that he just wants some nookie. But if you get a “u up?” on Friday or Saturday, that means he’s only looking to bow-chicka-wow-wow. You’re worth more than that!
How Often Does He Contact You?
Traditionally, men who only want to get pussy will reach out to you periodically, when they’re in the mood. Conversely, men that are purely interested in hitting that poontang will only reach out to you sparingly, when they’re horny and it’s convenient for them. That’s biology for you!
How Does He Respond To Non-Sexual Texts?
A man that is only interested in sex will likely only respond to text messages about sex, like “Can you come over?” or “I want you right now”. However, a man that is just in this to fuck won’t return your messages if you’re making small talk or getting emotional, because he just wants to get it in.
See If He’s Always “Busy”
Sure, guys can have busy schedules and not be able to actually go on an actual date with you, but you owe it to yourself to see if that’s really the case. Use social media to see if he really is “busy.” If you see pictures of him on the golf course with his brother, odds are he’s lying about being busy and just wants to love you and leave you. However, if you see a picture of him on Instagram watching the game with his buddies, that probably means you are nothing more to him than some girl he wants to fuck.
Offer Him Sex
Use this as a last resort. A great way to determine a man’s true intentions is to be blunt and straight up offer him the V. Make sure it’s clear that the sex you’re offering is no strings attached and comes with no requirement for him to see you at all afterward. If he says yes, it’s likely he is only interested in doing boom-boom in your room-room. If he accepts the offer and you two do the deed, the odds are he just wants to awww-skeet-skeet got dam. Knowledge is power!
It might take you several years before you find a guy that is willing to be honest with you about what he wants, but you’ll know you’ve found him when he is communicative about just wanting sex, rather than just wanting to fuck you.
