Nailing a first date feels like flying. You’ve created a special connection with someone new – someone with real romantic potential – and maybe you’re a little drunk off two glasses of wine to boot. When all is said and done and you sit down to evaluate the date, though, how do you know if you’re feeling butterflies because you really like this person or because you’re kind of amazing company to keep? Take this quiz to find out if your first date is going well or actually, you’re just the most charismatic person alive and can make any night into one of the best of both of your lives.
What was your first impression of your date?
- He walked into the room with this confidence that felt magnetic! It’s odd but – I was glad he came here to meet me.
- I was so focused on befriending the bartender that I simply did not notice him until he approached me.
Do you think your date is attractive physically?
- Absolutely! He’s got this stylish yet rugged look to him that’s really doing it for me. And he smells amazing.
- Kind of? Pretty sure he thinks I’m attractive, though, which is all that really matters!
What is your date’s best quality?
- He’s such an active listener – it feels like we can get lost in any topic for hours, which bodes really well for future dates!
- The way he is laughing at all my perfect jokes and seems to like me. I love that in a guy!
How is the conversation flowing?
- Like butter! There are barely any awkward silences, and any time we do get quiet, it’s kind of nice.
- Well, I’m asking him a lot of questions, but all he’s giving back is, “What about you?” I think he’s having an awesome time at least.
Would you consider a second date?
- For sure! It’s rare for me to be so taken with someone after a couple of hours, but I really like his energy and would love to see more of him.
- No second date. I’m exhausted. I’m doing an amazing job on this one, though!
RESULTS:
Mostly 1s: Doubters be damned – your first date is going well! You guys seem to have a genuine connection and are matching each other’s vibes beautifully. Lucky! We don’t know whether to congratulate you or throw up.
Mostly 2s: Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you’re just the most charismatic person alive, so the fact that you’re having a nice time actually has nothing to do with your date. You could have a nice time with an Allen wrench. Cut him loose and embrace the fact that you’re an amazing hang!
