4 Brene Brown Quotes for When Kevin Won’t Reciprocate Oral

We are all a work in progress, and that’s why we find so much strength from researcher and author Brene Brown and her best-selling self-help books. Sometimes, you need an extra reminder about how you are enough. Especially when you’ve just gone down on Kevin and he won’t go down on you in return. Here are some inspiring Brene Brown quotes to get you through your disappointment when Kevin won’t reciprocate oral sex!


“The brokenhearted are the bravest among us—they dared to love.”

This concept is so important because it says in one simple sentence why diving into love is daring and necessary. And speaking of diving in, it’s been like, sixteen days since Kevin last went down on you, so you really need some inner strength. I mean, sure he said he’s been experiencing this weird thing where he gets super exhausted immediately after you go down on him, but your Brene Brown-inspired bravery can only take you so far.


“Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage.”

This quote really speaks to you today. It was very stressful at work, which you totally told Kevin. Next thing you know, you’re getting busy and giving him the best BJ of his life. Now it’s time to get your clit rocked to fix this bad day once and for all! But instead, Kevin says, “Wanna just have sex?” I’m sorry, Kevin, but practice some vulnerability down here!



“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.”

With the power of Brene Brown behind you, today is the day you’re going to say, “Kevin, show up with a tongue and put it in me!” That’s basically what Brene is saying! Honestly, are you supposed to live like this? Step up, Kevin. I need this. We need this.


“We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can’t have both. Not at the same time.”

It’s now been seven weeks since Kevin last went down on you. This quote is a good reminder to not get comfortable and to choose courage! The courage to say, “Kevin, if you don’t make me orgasm with your mouth, I’m going to leave you.” Thanks, Brene!


For those days when you’re really struggling to find some perspective about a serious life issue, or Kevin hasn’t honored your pussy in two fucking months, Brene Brown’s wisdom lifts you up every time. Dare greatly and rise strong!