From Dumb Slut to Hot Slut: Improving Your Self-Talk

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Does it seem like you’re always getting the short end of the stick?  Like the universe is against you?  It’s actually more likely that you’re the one who’s holding you back…with negative self-talk.

 

Take stock of the way that you talk to yourself throughout your day. Adjust those thoughts to be more positive.

Replace “I’m a stupid skank and no one will ever want to hire me” with “I’m a smart, sexy skank – any company would be lucky to have me.” You’ll start believing in yourself and will find yourself capable of anything!

 

Use Daily Affirmations.

Affirmations are a great way to quickly change the way you talk and feel about yourself.  You’ll probably feel a little silly at first, but it gets easier.  Here are some to get you started, but feel free to make one up that works for you:

 

“My self-esteem is high because I honor who I am – a perfect bitch”

“I let go of childhood fears. I am a secure, empowered slut.”

“I am a capable cunt, and I can handle anything that comes my way.”

 

You can say them to yourself throughout the day, but be sure to write down your selected affirmation in the morning, at lunch, at dinner, and before bed.  If the negative thought pattern you’re trying to change involves food or weight, such as “I’m such a fat ho,” you may want to write the affirmation “I’m a hot little ho” 10 times at every meal.
 

 

Leave little notes that you may casually encounter throughout the day.

Stick a post-it on your bathroom mirror that says, “You are the most beautiful hooker I have ever seen.” Make the lock-screen on your phone say,“I am a powerful whore.  Success is mine for the hustling.”  That way, you’ll be reminded of how great you are every time you pick up your phone.

 

It might not happen overnight, and it may not feel natural at first – don’t let that stop you.  As they say, “Fake it ‘til you make it!”  Before you know it, you’ll feel great and everything you want in life will just start happening for you. And remember – you aren’t just any old basic bitch. Go get ‘em, you fucking whore!